Stereotypically, men are notorious for having straying eyes and the impulse to start off affairs with multiple partners, but when it comes to cheating, the sexes are more equally ranked than we’d think.
Indiana University conducted a study in the 1990s, reporting 10-15 % of women being unfaithful. A 2011 follow-up study showed it’s risen to 19 %. So why is the gender gap between unfaithful spouses closing?
Why do women cheat? To get the answers, read on!
1. Going Through a Transition
Major changes in your lady’s life can disturb her and prompt an impulsive desire to find someone else to divert her attention. That explains why women can cheat at any point in their lives. Transitioning events like graduating, turning older, losing a parent, advancing their career or upgrading a relationship status can cause them to become introspective.
Even if it’s a welcome change that she wants, such as getting engaged and an affair can prove to be a diversion.
2. She Doesn’t Feel Adequately Appreciated
We all seek an emotional connection with our partners. Women are just a little more sensitive, they want you to notice and appreciate them, take pride in their achievements. So as soon as women meet someone who kindles the missing spark, they start making an emotional connection with that person and seek companionship with them.
3. She Sees Your Relationship Ending
If your relationship is in the lows then you need to watch out and either get it back up or end it for good without heartbreak. Often women try to find someone else to fall back on when they feel that a relationship is on the outs.
If she is deliberating the breakup, she might want to experience being out of it and gauging if she’s ready to end things with you and move on or if she’s still too attached to you. It might also be a means to end, if she wants you to find out and give her a clean break – avoiding a messy breakup perhaps?
4. She’s Not that Happy with You
Laughter is a fundamental element in good, healthy relationship buts often gets overlooked and when you don’t laugh, you don’t love. It means your relationship is not a happy one.
Women can only stand that for so long before they try to find their happiness elsewhere. Just a few girls’ nights out can’t fix it. They’re in a relationship because they need a man who makes them happy.
So a coworker or friend, that they have a good time with can suddenly remind them of what’s missing in their own relationship but they’re not ready to end things with you so they can start a short fling just for the thrill of it.
5. Your Personal Life isn’t Spicy
Men aren’t the only ones who need excitement in the bedroom. Women also need to feel desired! If they begin to feel a sexual void they’ll try to fill it up with trysts outside of your relationship.
Women often compare their love life at home to that of their friends and when they hear about their exciting ventures they feel the need to spice things up.
If you’re opposed to trying new things or unable to realize that your woman isn’t happy with the way things are, you’ll never be able to make amends. And that will lead to her finding that satisfaction with someone more uninhibited.
6. She’s Emotionally Vulnerable
If your woman is already upset or going through an emotionally turbulent phase, particularly because of the lows in your relationship she’s likely to go astray.
A couple of compliments, flirty touches and sweet talk from another guy at the right time and she’ll be drawn to him enough to start questioning her relationship with you.
If you’ve had a few naughty experiences on a couple of drunken nights out with your boys, or a short fling with an ex, etc your woman might cheat on you to just get back.
8. She’s Tired of Fixing You
She hates a habit of yours and you never change. She meets someone who’s perfect like that and becomes automatically attracted to him.
9. Gold Digger
She loves your money more than she likes you. She will obviously move on to a better opportunity.
Have ever your woman cheated on you? What were the reasons? We’d love to hear more reasons from you!
So why a woman cheats in a relationship in your opinion?
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